cookie-pusher

Definition

Slang

  • noun an unmanly man, an effete or sycophantic male (the word never seems to be used of women). The image is of someone who spends his time passing cookies at tea parties, either because he enjoys such ‘effeminate’ activities, or in order to curry favour or further his career.
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